Sunday, August 29, 2010

How To Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend - Be Open Minded

Learning the tricks on how to get back with your ex boyfriend might be tougher than you thought. No, it's not impossible. As a matter of fact it's probably more achievable than you may realize. The real problem is that in order to make things work this time around you may need to face someone that can really be difficult to face: you.

What I mean is that in any relationship there are issues. Some issues are big and some are small. Sometimes the issues are fairly evenly divided between the two partners and sometimes it's almost exclusively one persons fault that things fell apart.

In order to learn how to get back with your ex boyfriend you have to be willing to face whatever issues you brought to the relationship, and that's not always fun to do. If you're strong enough and determined enough to get him back than you'll find the strength you need to make things work.

One thing to look out for though, don't make the mistake of thinking that just because you make changes everything will be great for the two of you. It might be if you were 100% at fault with everything that went wrong and your ex boyfriend was perfect, but of course, we both know that's not the case. You can't change your ex, only he can change himself but if he won't be willing to fix himself the way you are fixing yourself, it might be all for nothing.

So, what do you do to change? Well, it depends on what your issues are but for the most part if you figure out your issues and you're completely honest with yourself you can figure out why you have the issues you have.

For example, if you're overly jealous it usually means that you've either had someone cheat on you before or you just don't feel worthy of the love your boyfriend gives you. If you don't feel like your worth it it's only natural that on some level you would think that he's made a big mistake loving you and that sooner or later he'll realize his mistake and leave you.

That's not true of course, but if deep down that's how you feel than that's how you're going to react. That could be a big issue in your relationships. The point is that if you're having trouble honestly pinpointing your own issues and the causes for them, then you won't be able to fix this relationship or any other for that matter. It's best that you find someone who can help you work through all of this. Don't get scared of the idea of working with a therapist, instead just find one that you like and feel comfortable with who can safely steer you in the direction you need to go.

It's really not all that hard learning how to get back with your ex boyfriend. It will take time and honesty on your part but if you can find the strength you will be able to have great relationships for the rest of your life, not just romantic ones either, but all of them.

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