Friday, April 8, 2011

Things To Avoid For Getting An Ex Back

If you have just broken up from a relationship, whether it was a long marriage or just a few months of dating, either way you are probably feeling bad about it and wondering if there is any way to get an ex back. Most people will wonder this when they break up from a relationship but are still in love with their ex and the good news is that there are things that you can do to get your ex back. Along with the many things that you can do, there are also many mistakes that you can make, so here are some of the things you should avoid if you want to rekindle that lost love.

1. Don't constantly harass their friends. It is tempting to harass your ex's friends to find out what she is up to or if she is dating anyone else. This is just annoying to her friends and as such they will probably just complain to her about you and not have anything good to say.

2. Don't stalk your ex. Don't follow her around or turn up at her favorite hang out spots. Don't sit in your car outside her house and watch her every move. Don't text her 500 times a day telling her you love her and want her back. If you stalk her all you will do is annoy her and perhaps even begin to scare her and you could end up getting in trouble with the law over it.

3. Don't harass your ex's new partner. If she is seeing someone else don't harass him and try to cause trouble between them. Don't try to convince their new boyfriend that she'll never love them as much as she loves you, this will only make you look desperate and sad.

4. Don't call your ex's employer. If your ex is avoiding your calls don't try to get her to talk to you through her boss. Also don't call her boss to ask questions about her. All you will achieve with this is to get her in trouble and possibly even lose her job.

5. Don't call her every change you get. I know you just want to talk to her and try to work things out but if you call her constantly she will get sick of it and even angry. She might just need some space right now so you need to give her that.

6. Don't use anything they say against them. You won't win any fights by bringing up every little thing she said or did in the past and use it against her, particularly if you exaggerate things and make them much worse than they actually were.

These six points are things to avoid when you are trying to get your ex back. You want to get her back, not drive her further away so be careful in your approach. You want to give her some space and use that time yourself to decide what approach to take. It can be difficult playing the waiting game, but it will be worth it in the end.

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1 Response to "Things To Avoid For Getting An Ex Back"
  1. Scoan Healings said...
    March 20, 2015 at 4:41 PM

    my husband and i have been so happy living together.
    6months ago my little sister came for visit and before
    i notice my husband started cheating on our marriage
    he started sleeping with my sister. before i notice he
    was already too far my sister was now like his wife and
    i was now like my sister i have called my mother several
    times but when she tried to speak my husband always come
    up with the fact that he wants to marry her i can't really
    believe my little sister was now against me and my happiness
    she was now doing as if she was already married to him. 2months
    ago i contacted the police but nothing works out instead they
    were against me. i have been looking for a way all my effort
    turns out to nothing. 3weeks ago i contacted spell casters
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    mother that new what happen couldn't give. then she told me what told
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    room i had a voice like someone fighting when i nwent out side it was
    my sister and my husband i stood in the step case looking at them before
    i notice my sister saw me when she was coming i thought she want to fight
    me but to my suprise she knee and was begging me that she was sorry for all
    she did and that now she has nothing to do with him anymore i was surprise
    to say a word my husband too came holding my leg begging though i was crying
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    after a while my sister packed her things and was leaving i tried stopping but
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